I want it NOW! I often say my kids live in the now. What matters to them most, is what is happening right now. Can they have the PS4 controller – now. Can they have a snack – now. Can so and so play at our house – now! But I think that is most of us. We are so focussed on what we have to do today. What we have to do tomorrow. What we have planned for the future. It is easy to forget what has gone before. The events, experiences and relationships that made us who we are today.